Core Concepts
You have the power to control your own life and pursue your dreams, even if they differ from your family's expectations.
Abstract
The author shares their personal experience of growing up under the constant pressure of their parents' expectations. As a child, they felt like a "character in a book, controlled by an author, a puppet with no freedom." Their parents discouraged them from expressing individuality, dreaming big, or questioning the family's rules. The author was constantly told they were too young to understand the world and that their opinions didn't matter.
Over time, the author began to question this narrative and realized that their parents' way was not the only way. They found the courage to start pursuing their own path, despite the fear and trauma of always being silenced. The journey was not easy, but the author believes it is worth it to reclaim their voice and live life on their own terms.
The author encourages others who may be in a similar situation to embrace their unique journey, even if it doesn't mirror someone else's. They emphasize that your voice, your dreams, and your worth are all valid and important. By breaking free from the expected path, you can inspire others to do the same and create a "chain reaction of bravery" that can change the world.
Quotes
"Every decision felt like it wasn't mine to make, and every step I took was like walking on a path they had paved for me, not the one I wanted to live."
"It took a lot of courage, and there were times when I felt completely lost and scared because of the trauma they had passed on to me, the trauma of always being silent."
"You have the power to control your own life. You don't have to remain a voiceless puppet."