Core Concepts
Recognizing and acting on timely medical assistance can be the difference between life and death, as illustrated by the author's personal experience with a ruptured appendix.
Abstract
The author recounts a harrowing experience of dealing with a ruptured appendix, which went undiagnosed for several days. Initially, the author attributed the severe abdominal pain to a stomach infection and did not heed the advice of a friend, a doctor, to insist on an ultrasound. Over the next few days, the author's condition worsened, with increasing pain and difficulty passing stools.
Finally, after being referred to a surgeon, a CT scan revealed the ruptured appendix. The author underwent emergency surgery, where the surgeon found a "quite a mess" and had to drain 150 ml of pus. The author reflects on how she had missed the "three boats" of help offered along the way, including the doctor friend's advice and the radiology department's call to return for the CT scan report.
The author emphasizes the importance of effective communication with medical professionals and being proactive in one's own healthcare. She also shares insights about the challenges of distinguishing different types of pain and the difficulty in diagnosing a ruptured appendix based solely on a physical examination. The author's hospital stay involved various tests, procedures, and physiotherapy, and she notes the excellent care provided by the nursing staff.
The author draws parallels between this experience and a previous cancer surgery, noting the differences in her emotional responses. She emphasizes the importance of putting oneself first in such circumstances and recognizing the "boats" of help offered, as well as the value of gratitude and love in life.
Stats
150 ml of pus was drained during the surgery.
The author had a heart failure, not a heart attack, as a complication.
The author's arms were "painted by an artist" due to the multiple attempts to insert cannulas.
Quotes
"Look at my bald head! I had a lot of hair — God gave and God took. God gave you an appendix and he took it away."
"Always put yourself first in such circumstances — What use are you if you are dead and gone?"
"Life is a gift. Unwrap it with Gratitude and Love."