
The author expresses the pain and frustration of being someone's convenient option, always there but never truly chosen, highlighting the longing to be someone's first choice and the exhaustion of unreciprocated love.


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“Mahal mo lang ako kapag pagod na ako.”

was it love? or simply just convenience?

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The Pain of Being the Convenient Option, Not the Chosen One


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The author expresses the agonizing, all-consuming nature of unrequited love, finding a strange beauty in the pain it brings while yearning for reciprocation.


I hate yearning. All my life, all I’ve done is yearn and yearn and yearn till my heart has been churned and ripped out of my chest and stabbed. I have read love poems and love stories and love…

About A Girl (The Ballad Of A Loser In Love)

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The Pain and Ecstasy of Unrequited Love: A Confession



The experience of having a crush who is already in a happy relationship evokes a complex mix of happiness for their well-being and sadness for the unrealized possibility of a relationship.


For those who haven’t seen this film/need a refresher, Haesung says this when he finally met his childhood crush/sweetheart (for a decade, mind you), Nora’s current spouse. Even though Nora’s husband…

i didn’t know liking your girlfriend would hurt this much.

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The Bittersweet Feeling of Loving Someone Who Loves Someone Else
