The article discusses the issue of people's self-worth being heavily dependent on their achievements and how they are perceived by others, particularly on social media. The author's best friend is struggling with this, feeling insecure and like a "loser" when comparing her life to the seemingly perfect lives of her friends on social media.
The author argues that this is a problem of the "narcissistic era" we live in, where society is obsessed with those who have successful careers and make a lot of money. The default question when meeting new people is "What do you do?", which the author believes is just a way to measure a person's worth.
The article suggests that this way of thinking leads to a "rat race" where people constantly try to outshine others, seeking validation and admiration. However, the author believes that self-worth should be measured by the quality of one's character, such as being caring, a good listener, and having a calm and reasonable nature. These are the traits that foster meaningful human relationships, not just achievements.
The author uses the example of talented athletes who have to retire due to injury to illustrate that hard work and success are not enough to determine a person's worth. They emphasize that even if someone is an "ordinary person", they can still be loved for their character.
The key message is that basing self-worth solely on achievements and social media comparisons is an exhausting and ultimately unfulfilling way to live. Instead, people should focus on developing their unique character and finding self-worth in the quality of their relationships and personal growth.
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by Yuan Vk kl. medium.com 07-09-2024
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