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If I truly mattered to you, I wouldn't have to keep asking if I do.
Tiivistelmä
The content explores the author's experience of feeling unvalued and constantly seeking reassurance in a relationship. The key points are:
- The author expresses a simple truth that if they truly mattered to the other person, they wouldn't have to repeatedly ask if they do.
- Love and care should not be shrouded in doubt or uncertainty. If the author mattered, it would be evident in the way the other person interacts with them.
- The author has found themselves constantly asking "Do I matter to you?" but never receiving a satisfactory answer or reassurance.
- Love should not be a guessing game or a constant struggle to be seen and acknowledged. If the author mattered, they wouldn't be left wondering about their standing.
- The author has given so much of themselves, hoping to be seen and valued, but it felt like their words and feelings were being ignored.
- The author realizes that love and care should be freely given, not something that has to be begged for.
- The author concludes that if they have to keep asking if they matter, then perhaps they never did, and it's time to find their own worth instead of seeking validation from someone unwilling to provide it.
Tilastot
"If I mattered to you, I wouldn't have to keep asking if I do."
"Love and care shouldn't be shrouded in doubt. It shouldn't be a question lingering in the air."
"If I truly held a place in your heart, if I truly mattered, I would feel it in the way you speak to me, in the way you look at me, in the way you make time for me."
"Love is not supposed to be a guessing game. It's not supposed to be a constant struggle to be seen, to be heard, to be acknowledged."
"If I mattered to you, I wouldn't be left to wonder where I stand. I wouldn't wouldn't be left to pick up the pieces of my own shattered self-worth."
Lainaukset
"If I mattered to you, I wouldn't have to keep asking if I do."
"Love should be freely given, that care should be evident in every action, every word."