Core Concepts
The author reflects on the patronizing attitudes and dismissive treatment of the elderly by the younger generation, highlighting the resilience, wisdom, and adaptability of the older population.
Abstract
The content explores the author's personal experiences with ageism and the patronizing treatment of the elderly. It begins by describing the author's self-consciousness about the visible signs of aging and the critical comments made by her husband. The author then delves into the experiences of visiting beauty parlors, where the staff suggests "anti-aging" treatments, implying that the author's age is visible and undesirable.
The author contrasts this with the kind remarks from friends who say the author does not look her age, questioning whether these are genuine or just polite gestures. The author also reflects on how the younger generation tends to dismiss the experiences and wisdom of the elderly, viewing their times as "archaic" and lacking the exposure and challenges faced by the modern world.
However, the author argues that the older generation has also had to deal with competition and challenges, often without the technological advantages available today. The author highlights the resilience and adaptability of the elderly, who have learned to use modern technology and stay relevant. The author also marvels at the fortitude of younger individuals, such as single mothers, who have to juggle multiple responsibilities without the support system that the older generation had.
The content concludes with a quote that emphasizes the importance of gracefully handling the aging process, rather than viewing it as an option.
Quotes
"Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art."
Eleanor Roosevelt
"Aging is not an option, not for anyone. It is how gracefully we handle the process and how lucky we are, as the process handles us."
Cindy McDonal