Core Concepts
Approaching conversations with children as individuals with unique interests and personalities is key to establishing meaningful connections and friendships.
Abstract
Engaging in conversations with children requires curiosity, active listening, and genuine interest in their world. Adults can connect with kids by finding common ground, asking open-ended questions, and letting the child lead the conversation. Establishing a comfortable environment, respecting their expertise, and being authentic are essential elements in building relationships with children.
Stats
"If you’re curious, warm, and earnest, you can make a new friend — and leave your awkward adult persona behind."
"Instead of ‘How’s school?’, you could ask, ‘If you were principal for the day, what’s one thing you’d absolutely change?’"
"Kids are egocentric in nature, and they love to talk about what they love."
"There’s an inherent power imbalance between an adult and a kid."
"Adults make the mistake that they need to talk a lot."
"Just come as you are since kids can tell whether you’re being authentic or not."
Quotes
"Kids are egocentric in nature, and they love to talk about what they love." - Morgan Eldridge
"People [not just children!] actually love it when you listen." - Robyn Silverman
"It’s really about showing up as yourself in the moment." - Tina Payne Bryson