Core Concepts
The author's close relationship with her aging father has evolved over the years, with roles shifting as they support each other through life's challenges, despite the physical distance between them.
Abstract
The content describes the author's strong bond with her 86-year-old father, who lives 7,000 miles away. Despite the distance, they have maintained a daily routine of calling each other, which has become a cherished habit.
Over the years, the power dynamics between the father and daughter have shifted, with the father sometimes acting like a "needy child" and "moody teenager," while the author has assumed the role of a long-distance caregiver, especially during the pandemic.
The author appreciates her father's unwavering support, particularly during her difficult divorce, when he provided words of encouragement to help her get through tough days. The content also highlights the author's introduction of her boyfriend to her father, and the father's gradual acceptance of her dating life.
Additionally, the author discusses her own struggles with anxiety and depression, and how her father's presence has been a source of strength and comfort throughout her life.
Stats
The author's father lives 7,000 miles away.
The author's father is 86 years old.
Quotes
"Although he lives in a different country, he supported me every day during my prolonged and difficult divorce. On days I didn't have it in me to go on, he'd instill enough strength with words of encouragement to make me through another tough day."
"It was the pandemic that brought about a subtle shift in our roles. Suddenly, I found myself in the position of a long-distance caregiver. What was even more unexpected was how naturally I assumed the new role."