Core Concepts
Embracing personal growth and authenticity can lead to the loss of some relationships, but also the deepening of others.
Abstract
The author shares their experience of going through personal transformation and the unexpected consequences it had on their social circle.
Initially, the author's therapist warned them that not everyone would accept the changes they were going through, and that some relationships would end while others would deepen. However, the author found that the ratio between these two groups was heavily skewed, with the majority of their friends unable to accept the new, more authentic version of themselves.
The author describes the difficulty of this transition, as they had to let go of long-standing friendships in order to stay true to their evolving self. This process was painful, but the author ultimately realized that maintaining these superficial relationships was hindering their personal growth.
The author emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself, even if it means losing some friends in the process. They acknowledge that this can be a lonely and challenging experience, but one that is necessary for personal development and finding fulfillment. The author encourages others going through similar transitions to have courage and to prioritize their own growth and authenticity, even if it means facing the loss of relationships.
Quotes
"When I started therapy, my psychologist warned me that not everyone would accept changes in me. Some relationships would end, and others would deepen."