Core Concepts
There is a lack of open discussion and written accounts from middle-aged women about their sexual experiences, desires, and changes over time.
Abstract
The author expresses fascination with female sexuality, particularly the experiences of middle-aged women. They note that while they have had conversations with older women about their libido and sexual experiences, there seems to be a lack of written accounts and open discussion on this topic.
The author wonders why more middle-aged women are not writing about the "pleasures and perils of sex and orgasm" in their 50s and 60s. They are curious to understand how women's sexuality compares across different life stages, from their 20s to 60s. Questions are raised about whether sexual desire completely fades with menopause or if it remains a "raging fire" waiting to be ignited.
The author believes that gaining more knowledge and understanding of middle-aged women's sexuality could help maximize the pleasure of their significant others. They express a desire to accumulate enough knowledge on this topic, not from a perspective of controlling the female body, but out of genuine fascination and interest.