Core Concepts
Pursuing a PhD in online dating, despite not being part of one's original life plan, can provide valuable lessons about self-discovery, relationships, and personal growth.
Abstract
The author, Kasey Sparks, shares their unexpected journey of earning a "PhD in Bumble" after going through a divorce. Initially, they viewed their time on the dating app as a temporary experience, expecting to learn a few things, meet someone, and then be done.
However, the author's experience on the dating platform turned into an extended journey of self-discovery and personal growth. They gained valuable insights that went beyond the typical online dating experience, akin to earning an advanced degree.
The author highlights several key lessons learned, including the importance of self-reflection, the need to embrace vulnerability, and the value of maintaining a positive mindset. These lessons helped the author navigate the complexities of dating and relationships, ultimately leading to personal growth and a better understanding of themselves.
The author's experience demonstrates how an unconventional path, such as pursuing a "PhD in Bumble," can provide unexpected opportunities for learning and development, even if it was not part of one's original life plan.
Quotes
"Earning my PhD in Bumble wasn't part of my life plan when I signed up on the dating app after my divorce."
"I'd be there for a few months, learn a few things, meet someone, and be done."