Core Concepts
Differing communication styles can lead to misunderstandings, where one person's attempt at engaged discussion is perceived by the other as interruption.
Abstract
The content describes a situation where the author, during graduate school, lived with a woman who was getting her Master's degree in linguistics. For a research paper, the linguist asked the author and the author's best friend to have a half-hour conversation that she could film and analyze.
The author notes that she thought she was engaging in "cooperative overlapping" during the conversation, but her husband thought she was interrupting. This highlights how individuals can have different communication styles and perceptions of what constitutes normal conversational flow.
The concept of "cooperative overlapping" refers to the tendency of some speakers to interject or overlap with the other speaker's speech, not as an interruption, but as a way to signal active engagement and continue the discussion. This is a common communication style in certain cultures and contexts. However, it can be misinterpreted by those who are more accustomed to a more turn-taking style of conversation.
The content suggests that understanding and accommodating different communication styles is important to avoid misunderstandings and improve interpersonal interactions.