Core Concepts
Frequent winners often struggle more to accept and learn from losses compared to ordinary people, as they are socially conditioned to present themselves as perpetual victors.
Abstract
The article discusses the challenges that frequent winners face in accepting and dealing with losses. The author observes that while ordinary people may handle losses better, those who have tasted victory frequently and quickly often have a harder time swallowing their words and taking the loss.
The author notes that it is increasingly difficult to find public failures being openly admitted and discussed, as people have built a social persona of being just winners. This creates an unrealistic expectation that successful individuals must always come out on top, making it harder for them to acknowledge and learn from their defeats.
The article suggests that the delusion of constant victory is worse than the actual experience of losing, and that being able to gracefully accept and reflect on one's failures is an important aspect of personal growth and development.
Quotes
"Besides Instagram quotes in pictures, do people know how to do this anymore?"
"We've built ourselves to be just winners socially, and it's unrealistic."