Core Concepts
The author has developed a strong dislike for attending parties, clubs, bars, and other organized social events due to a combination of factors, including a desire for control, discomfort with drunk behavior, and personal awkwardness in such settings.
Abstract
The author expresses that they have come to strongly dislike attending parties, clubs, bars, and other organized social events. They describe these events as involving loud music, alcohol, and "random humans" in an unfamiliar place, which they find deeply unpleasant.
The author cites several reasons for their aversion to these social events:
Desire for control: The author hates not being in control of the situation and finds the many variables involved in a crowded, enclosed space with drunk strangers to be overwhelming. They prefer to drive themselves there and home, and to remain sober in order to think clearly.
Discomfort with drunk behavior: The author dislikes being around drunk people, as they find alcohol often leads to volatility in people's emotions and actions. While they acknowledge that some people can handle their alcohol well, the author generally does not enjoy the atmosphere created by intoxicated individuals.
Personal awkwardness: The author finds the social dynamics of these events, such as standing in a circle with friends or strangers, making small talk, and making eye contact, to be deeply uncomfortable and "weird." They struggle with the inability to have meaningful conversations due to the loud music.
Despite wishing that they could enjoy these types of social events, the author has concluded that partying and clubbing simply "is not [their] thing." They have come to accept their aversion to these situations and no longer feel the need to force themselves to attend.
Stats
I don't see others hating it so much. It makes me feel as if I'm wrong for feeling this way.
I usually just say things like — "I guess I just partied a lot when I was younger so I don't enjoy it anymore"
Or "I don't like to drink because it hurts my stomach" — which by the way, it actually does. Yeah, I know, I'm an old head.
Quotes
"I hate not being in control. There are a million variables when you're in an enclosed room with a bunch of (mostly) drunk strangers."
"I don't like being around drunk people too much. Alcohol almost always causes volatility in people's emotions and actions."