Core Concepts
Embracing impermanence and change is more valuable than striving to be an immovable boulder.
Abstract
The author reflects on the common human desire to be "as firm as a rock" - unwavering, dependable, and unbreakable. However, they argue that this boulder-like mentality is misguided. While we may take pride in our stoicism and ability to withstand adversity, the author suggests that true strength lies in our ability to adapt and change, like a ripple on the water's surface.
The author acknowledges the fear of "breaking" or losing one's integrity, which is often associated with weakness. However, they propose that this perspective is flawed. Breaking down into smaller pieces does not necessarily equate to permanent scarring or loss of value. In fact, the author suggests that the ability to transform and reform is a sign of resilience and power.
The core message is that embracing impermanence and the natural cycles of growth and change is more valuable than striving to be an immovable boulder. By being open to the ebb and flow of life, we can survive the "darkness" and emerge in a different, perhaps even better, form.
Quotes
"We pride ourselves on stolidness. On being calm. Dependable. Unflinching. I am as firm as a rock, we say, and what we mean is we'll hold fast when the darkness comes."
"Break into enough small pieces (or maybe, pieces small enough), and you cease to exist."