Core Concepts
Older women are increasingly choosing independence over cohabitation in relationships, leading to a shift in dating dynamics among seniors.
Abstract
In the realm of senior dating, a growing trend is emerging where older women prefer living independently rather than moving in with their male partners. This choice stems from a desire for personal freedom, avoiding co-dependence, and maintaining individual lifestyles. Statistics show that more senior women are satisfied living alone, reflecting a broader societal shift towards independent living choices among older adults. The reluctance to cohabit is creating a divide between older men who seek companionship through live-in relationships and women who value their autonomy and separate residences. This change is driven by factors such as financial independence, career achievements, and the desire to avoid repeating past unequal divisions of labor experienced in previous marriages. As society evolves to accept diverse relationship models, senior-age women are forging partnerships that suit their preferences and lifestyles without compromising their independence or personal space.
Stats
More than 68 per cent of seniors residing alone in 2016 were women according to Statistics Canada.
The share of separated or divorced seniors living alone more than tripled between 1981 and 2016.
In-depth interviews conducted in 2013 revealed that men often assumed they or their girlfriends would move in eventually while women preferred solo arrangements.
72 per cent of senior-age women reported they were highly satisfied living on their own based on data from the 2017 General Social Survey.
Quotes
"I really believe that women no longer need men, whatsoever." - Antonio D’Alfonso
“I don’t want to take care of anybody. I want to take care of me.” - Rhoda Nadell
“I think that what women are asking is that we understand them differently.” - Antonio D’Alfonso