Core Concepts
Kindness and genuine human connection are being commercialized in the modern world, leading to a loss of true friendship and intimacy.
Abstract
In a poignant reflection on the changing landscape of relationships, the author shares the dark prophecy passed down by their 92-year-old grandfather. The grandfather emphasized that kindness is crucial in navigating a technologically advancing world but warned about the shadow side of human qualities becoming commodities. He foresaw a future where people would have to pay for friendship, highlighting how charisma, loyalty, and other human traits could be monetized. This prediction is eerily coming true today as social networks host popularity battles where interaction requires economic gestures like sending virtual gifts. The virtual realm has transformed into a marketplace where even intimacy is commercialized, giving rise to what the grandfather termed "Merchants of love." The narrative underscores the importance of emotions in fostering deep connections and rootedness, essential for personal growth and meaningful relationships.
Stats
"Kindness is the new oil."
"There will come a time when people will have to pay to have friends."
"People swarm around people with charisma and form communities where you can only belong by paying."
"Many people commercialize their intimacy in a particular social network."
"The virtual world has become a shopping mall where people pay for everything, even for friendship."
Quotes
"Boy, there will come a time when people will have to pay to have friends. And that time is closer than you think." — My grandfather.