Core Concepts
A coworker's ongoing support and wisdom helped the author develop self-respect, resilience, and the ability to handle adversity in the workplace.
Abstract
The content describes the author's relationship with their coworker, Margaree, and how she helped the author develop important personal qualities. Margaree was a mentor to the author, who initially lacked self-preservation and the ability to handle criticism and adversity at work.
Margaree shared stories about her own life experiences, including growing up on a farm with 12 siblings and facing discrimination at her jobs as a young, Black, single mother. She encouraged the author not to give in to self-pity and provided advice on dealing with disagreements.
After a hurtful incident with a coworker, Margaree invited the author to visit her at her other job at a religious seminary. There, she talked to the author as a friend, mother, and minister, and shared the profound phrase "Hurt people hurt people" from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. This advice became deeply ingrained in the author, allowing them to respond to angry coworkers with understanding and walk away.
The author credits Margaree's ongoing support and wisdom for preventing them from quitting their job and helping them develop self-respect, the ability to listen to others, and resilience in the face of adversity.
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"Hurt people hurt people," spoken by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Quotes
"Hurt people hurt people."