The author, a 9-year-old girl, recounts her experience living with her 24-year-old cousin from Greece who was studying in the US. The author was bothered by her cousin's smoking habit and tried to address it by hiding her cousin's cigarettes.
The author describes herself as an "obnoxiously theatrical kid" when it came to the issue of smoking, holding her nose and sighing in disapproval when passing smokers on the street. She even bought a Camel hat, not realizing it displayed the insignia of a cigarette company.
When the author hid her cousin's cigarettes, it led to surprising insights. The cousin simply bought more cigarettes, highlighting the author's lack of control over her cousin's behavior. The author realized that trying to force change on others, even with good intentions, can be futile and lead to unintended consequences.
The experience taught the author valuable lessons about relinquishing control and accepting that she cannot change others, only herself. It was a formative experience that contributed to the author's personal growth.
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by Eleni Stepha... om medium.com 09-18-2024
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