The author discusses the paradox faced by postpartum mothers, who are expected to quickly recover and resume their pre-pregnancy lives while also caring for a newborn. Despite the significant physical and emotional changes, new mothers often receive unsolicited advice and criticism from well-meaning but misguided family and friends.
The author recounts personal experiences of being "MILsplained" by her mother-in-law and criticized by a friend for constantly holding her 3-month-old baby. She argues that these comments, even if well-intentioned, can undermine a new mother's confidence and self-esteem. The author emphasizes that every mother's experience is unique, and unless specifically asked, others should refrain from offering unsolicited advice or judgment.
The author acknowledges that her frustration has led to a more expressive and emotional writing style, but she maintains that it is important for new mothers to be able to voice their struggles and advocate for the support they need during this transformative period.
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by Aurene Ferna... på medium.com 07-18-2024
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