Core Concepts
Becoming aware of the rich inner lives and stories of the people around us, even in mundane settings like a bus stop.
Abstract
The author describes a moment of heightened awareness and observation while waiting at a bus stop. Typically, the author is absorbed in their own thoughts and inner world, oblivious to the activity happening around them.
However, on this particular day, the author was able to step outside of their own mental preoccupations and become more attuned to the sights, sounds, and subtle interactions of the people at the bus stop. The author could hear the music playing, notice the body language and facial expressions of the strangers, and imagine the unique stories and inner lives of each individual.
This shift in perspective is described as an experience of "sonder" - the realization that each person around us has a complex life as vivid and meaningful as our own. The author reflects on how this heightened awareness can provide a deeper sense of connection and empathy, even in the most mundane of settings.
Quotes
"Most of the time, the voices in my head drown out what's going on around me. I become completely occupied by the mini drama unfolding in my head and I'm blinded to the action unfolding in the real world."